Aston Lukoye
Being the cousin of well-known artist Samidoh, Bernice Saroni, also known as MamakeBoyz, is causing a stir in Kenya as she terms Karen Nyamu a Demon.
Her bold exploration of the complicated topic of extramarital affairs has sparked lively conversations among women on a number of social media platforms.
On September 7, Saroni clearly distinguished between two sorts of side relationships and clarified the reasons behind their disparate actions.
Her open comments on TikTok struck an emotional touch with many who have been caught up in similar circumstances.
In the first type, there are discreet affairs in which the partner would rather be anonymous to their spouse.
These people discreetly date married people while maintaining their relationship.
But Bernice Saroni’s strongest feelings were drawn to the second type, which she called “pepo,” or jealous rivals and relationship disruptors.
“These individuals make their presence known,” she said. They might even make fun of the wife, which would make you question why you are making fun of her. The wife didn’t approach you; you went after her companion. You are the one putting the house in danger.
Saroni’s speech was a forceful exhortation to women to value and cherish themselves first.
She advised women not to get involved with married men, pointing out that these kinds of relationships eventually result in a loss of inner fulfilment and tranquilly.
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You belong to the second group if you’ve decided to become a side partner. This man never pledged to leave his wife for you; instead, he told you about his children and marital status when you first met him. Why then are you unable to use caution and concentrate on your personal life? There’s no reason to date a married man if you think highly of yourself.
She ended by making a sincere plea to women to value their own worth, put their health first, and look for relationships.
“You will find a companion of your own and not be cast into the position of a second spouse” She said. “You will eventually lose your tranquilly if you harbour jealously or competitiveness towards the second kind of side partners” Added
Bernice Saroni’s bravery in addressing this matter head-on has opened up a much-needed conversation among women about self-respect, empowerment, and selecting fulfilling relationships in a world where such conversations are typically kept to ourselves.
Her words should serve as a potent reminder to everyone to put their own pleasure and well-being first.
