Aston Lukoye
Nairobi young ladies have noticed that men these days don’t even bother trying. What became of courtship? What happened to getting together with someone before getting naked?
Nowadays, when a woman “plays hard to get,” men quickly move on to the next one, leaving the woman they were pursuing to wonder what they did wrong. As a result, sooner rather than later, the woman begins pursuing the man. He gains a lot of ego and understands he will never want to pursue a woman again.
In the modern era, most males enjoy having women chase them. They feel more confident knowing that a lady is pursuing them. To put it simply, it improves their self-esteem. We all like to feel needed, and for males, being pursued by a woman gives them that feeling.
However, it appears that men have created a dating strategy where they choose to manipulate women’s emotions in order to hook them.
Control is exercised by the one who pursues or seduces the other person before shunning or rejecting them. When you pursue or seduce someone, you get euphoric. It is wonderful to feel intriguing, powerful, desired, and in charge of the other person.
Men have been playing this game for a very long time, but it appears that they are improving their wooing techniques and shooting for the target. They are no longer interested in pursuing and feel at ease being pursued or ignored. No effort is required.
Source: Nairobi News
